Your Ex-Husband is not the person who “got away” from you. You are the one that got away. Remember the feeling of being in that dying relationship? You are the fortunate Escapee, who has regained her freedom, life, and ability to make any plans she wants. Just think of that.
Don’t think of yourself as the person who was left. Think of yourself as the person who was freed!
Embrace this concept. Know that days are waiting on you to tell them what will happen. What exciting new adventure will take place. What post-pandemic/post breakup experiences are sitting there on idle, waiting for you to experience them?
The hundreds of days ahead are anticipating the very best life has to offer. Don’t you see their hopeful faces smiling at you from the calendar? Choose the things that bring simple joys.
June gloom has run off, July is like an ocean holding out her hand as if to say, “Come in! The water’s fine!” And this
summer, no one has a bathing suit bod thanks to Covid, so no excuses there you hot Mama!
I believe that like attracts like and if I am willing to try new things, they will appear in my sphere of existence. I think the same may be for you too. Of course, you must step outside your door first.
Think about that as you fill out your “what’s left of summer” calendar of enthusiasm, with each day of the week chomping at the bit to provide you some much needed fun. Maybe the fireworks this July won’t only be in the sky.
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!