I woke up this morning with a strange thought. What if I decided to be elegant? Maybe it’s that I’m swinging the other way after…
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Releasing Keys That No Longer Fit Your Life
Are you carrying a ring of keys that don’t belong to any doors? I was with someone for a quarter of a century. During that…
Leave a CommentThe “Burden” of Simplicity
When a long-term relationship is ending, life is a maze. Surrounded by walls we can’t see over becomes commonplace. Stressed about what’s around every future…
Leave a CommentYou Are Your Goddess Now
“You think I’m not a goddess? Try me.” – From a poem by Margaret Atwood Now that you have been through the emotional wreckage of…
Comments closedAre You Having a “Non-Coupler” Christmas?
In the ensuing years after a breakup, you get used to being alone. You become idiosyncratic. I don’t know if it’s from the pandemic or…
Leave a CommentStuck on Your Life Elevator? Pick a Floor!
Immediately after you are left, there are so many life choices in front of you, that it can be paralyzing. For me, it was like…
Leave a CommentYour Next Love Won’t Be A Man
Who will be your next love? Let me propose this idea: it may not be a man. In fact, it most probably will not. All…
Leave a CommentIllusions of Intimacy? Seven Clues You Are Not A Real Couple
The “D” Word1. If you have to ask the man you think you are dating if you are “a couple,” you are not a couple.…
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