Holiday starlight is looking for all of us.
There is the notion, that to catch a falling star, we must be standing under it. Are we making the changes to get our celestial bodies out there? Making changes after being walked out on may not seem festive. At all. Holy nights in reality are endless nights of tossing and turning during this mid-life transition. There is another option for those seasonally sleepless hours. Find ways to decorate the dark and see the brightness waiting for you. Hang some lights on the tree of New Life.
Decorate the darkness inside. Put on some holiday music. Heat up some cider. Invite friends over. Get out of those bah-humbug heads!
Black, grey or worse brown (?) dresses on your person? C’mon festive ladies. Red dress, gold shoes. It’s time to celebrate all of the wonders of this season of light. Wear. High. Heels to that party. Catch that falling star and carry it to light both night and day. Calendars are all about to turn and future days are cherubs beckoning excitedly, “Come this way! We cannot wait to be with you!”
The best way to redesign future days is to treat each one like an outstretched hand. A hand that holds a gift for us.
“What is my next step? When is the right time to do something new? Where must the hands of our Life Clock be pointed to make a change?” Ladies, my goodness! Those are middle of the night tossing-turning questions. They disappear in the light of day. All of the answers live inside of this new life. Think about that! What could be more festive than knowing you already have all the gifts you need inside. Unwrap them now!
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!