Some days are just “to heck with it all” days. You don’t want to think about all that’s happened, (pain, tears, deception) and all that needs to happen to become the new person you need to be to truly be happy – blah, blah, blah. You want for just a few minutes, or an ENTIRE DAY, to feel happy without that constant “What is My Life Coming To?” buzz in your head. I think thoughts such as “The Heck With It All” are awesome! I think it means you are feeling more confident, and sick of identifying yourself as a “women who was left for a younger model” or whatever the reason was. You are getting used to just being YOU. Today. Right now. Who cares if the “what-ifs” hit you again tomorrow? The important thing is, you had the thought and now you know how thinking that makes you feel. It makes you feel “The Heck with it all.” It happened, now let’s move on. You are finally feeling stronger! So don’t think even for a second that this feeling is just a fluke and tomorrow you will still feel like a dried out piece of crap. Why ruin your first “feeling stronger” day with thoughts like that? Are you so sick that you’d actually deny your psyche a day (or hour) of happiness just to punish yourself for your current life dilemma? The one you now see in hindsight you had nothing to do with because you cannot control a man’s actions? Even the man you thought you knew? Who do you think you are? Some Magical Fairy for Single Gals? The One Who Has All the Answers to the Why Was I Left question? As much as I wish that Fairy exists, alas, we must live in reality. Unless of course, you want to date a Hobbit. God knows, there’s plenty of them out there. 🙂
Who cares if your sidewalk is a bit cracked right now? Put one foot in front of the other and start walking! You don’t have to think about the past today! Put your head up and look at the blue sky. Hear the birds sing! Say “To Heck With It All!”
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!