When your relationship was unraveling, you were more than likely walking on eggshells. Conflicts were abounding verbally, or silently in The House That Resentment built.
This was an untenable situation. For, once an egg is cracked, there is no way to make it whole again. And even now that it’s over, you may still have a few pesky eggshells beneath your feet. You continue to worry that this relationship is not something you are going to get “Over-Easy.”
Well, I have a proposition for you, and I hope you’re open to it. How about you decide to start incubating a New Egg? One just for yourself? An egg is a symbol of New Life and that is exactly what you need to create. You are in a delicate phase with a delicate shell. Of course you don’t know exactly what your new life will be this instant. But that’s okay. All you have to do is nurture yourself.
Know that years from now you will look back on this phase of your life as Hopeful instead of Unknown. As a time you went inside yourself for a while. Because you needed to figure out the New Life you wanted to create, without walking on “you-know-what.”
Sweep your floors and clear the path beneath your feet. Don’t worry about the New You you are incubating. She will peck her way out and emerge into her New Life, exactly when she knows she is ready to fly. So Happy New Year. And here’s to A Good Egg.
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!