Are you still lurking on your Ex? Hovering around their Facebook or other online social media? Are you going into mutual friends’ feeds and checking…
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Are you carrying a ring of keys that don’t belong to any doors? I was with someone for a quarter of a century. During that…
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People ask me for directions all the time. They trust that I am going to tell them where they are going. When I lived in…
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In the ensuing years after a breakup, you get used to being alone. You become idiosyncratic. I don’t know if it’s from the pandemic or…
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Immediately after you are left, there are so many life choices in front of you, that it can be paralyzing. For me, it was like…
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The “D” Word1. If you have to ask the man you think you are dating if you are “a couple,” you are not a couple.…
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Your Ex-Husband is not the person who “got away” from you. You are the one that got away. Remember the feeling of being in that…
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“Anticippointment.” I came up with a word “Anticippointment.” During the split, this was the time I was anticipating the Ex would step up to the…
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