“You can be the outcast or be the backlash of somebody’s lack of love. Or you can start speaking up.”
Sometimes songs on the radio just happen to speak to exactly where I’m at. I know in most of my past relationships, I did not use my voice. I did not actually tell the person I was in the relationship with what I was hoping it might be. I just thought that somehow magically the feelings would be mutual and I would get what I wanted. This was my fear that saying something would drive him away. Have you had this fear in your relationships? Did it silence you?
This quote reminds me to ask for what I want and need, especially when I am not being properly recognized as one half of the relationship. No more fear of my feelings. I hope the same for you!
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!