“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.” ~ Oprah
“If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.” That sentence was a flash of O Wisdom that I had not realized. I’m sure many of you were at that point where you were quite stunned that trying The Old Ways of making your ex happy stopped working. And, if you’re like me, what did that lead to? Facing the fact that something had changed? Sitting him down for an honest talk? Getting to the bottom of it? Um, no. (I know you knew that.) It led to me doing more and more “things” to be The Good Wife.
I know now that that ship had sailed. I was standing on the dock alone, waiting for a tide change that would bring him back. Back To Us.
So if you are still standing there, I urge you to turn around and realize that it’s over. Done. He’s done, and though it’s very painful to admit, You’re Done Too. You’re done. There is a new life for you now. You can now look to the horizon and see Your Ship coming in!!! And it will come in. Right to you! Because it’s Yours. The one you deserve, but most importantly, the one you’ve dreamed of. The one you will board and be The Captain of! The wind in your face. The fresh salt air, the Beauty of Unknowing! All of that doom and gloom you put yourself through. This is what you feared? This lovely day? This freedom?
If you are not there yet, if this post seems too much for you, it’s okay. It will be here, waiting for you, Go. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Free Yourself.
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!