For all of you recently left:
Right now you may feel like you are in a canoe that is going down a river. My advice is that, as much as you think you want to, you shouldn’t pick up the oar and try to steer your course. My advice is to let the current take you where it will. And trust that there will be beauty and joy at your destination.
Even as a river flows, it has banks that contain it. There is safety there. So as you feel your life is out of control right now, know this. It isn’t. And you, my Beautiful Ones, are moving forward! When was the last time that happened? That is exciting, is it not? Exhilarating, in fact!
All of those old plans that never came to your old relationship are washed away now. You are being carried by life to a new destination. Trust that you are moving forward with no effort needed on your part.
You will get to where you need to be and you will know it when it happens. And then you can pick up the oar.
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!