When you were being cheated on, you had Doubt. Somewhere inside, you doubted he was being honest with you. About all the late night sneak ins, about why the two of you were no longer intimate. What you quickly realized, either when you confronted him, or when he left, was that your Doubts were right. But that was then, and this is now, so let’s talk about the Doubts you have about yourself these days.
Do you Doubt you will ever find love again? Or if that’s not even on your agenda, do you have doubts about your looks, your career, your future?
Everyone, no matter what their circumstance, has Doubts. But, us Left at 50’s are perhaps more plagued than others.
Our Life Plan was upended. The road we thought we were traveling down with a mate beside us, turned out to have a Huge Fork in it. So, we Doubt our future steps, where they will lead and if we can find happiness on our road.
The thing is, there is no alternative than to keep going down it, is there? You know that.
So, while you are heading down your New Road, can’t you decide to enjoy the trip? You get to decide the route now!!
Who knows what lovely things are on your path ahead? Endless possibilities, new friends, unexpected joyful experiences!
I ask You, Why The Doubt? Get that word out of your psyche. You are a cool, smart, ambitious, loving person. If you think your road is a Dead End right now, I get where you are at. But that’s just today.
Look at the beautiful horizon, where the Earth meets the Sun. If you tell me there’s nothing but misery there so why bother, I have only one thing to say to you…I Doubt It!
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!