All of us Left at 50’s are standing on a see-saw. Right in the middle of it. When we were in our dysfunctional relationship, we often felt stuck on one end, our legs dangling in the air with no way to get back down.
The entire relationship was horribly off balance. So how could we ever expect to get our footing? But now that our relationship has ended, amazingly we find we are perfectly in balance! Wow, we never saw that coming when we were sobbing at the lawyer’s office! Now WE can choose to make it tip one way, or the other. We can see what feels right for us on any given day. We have that power. For real. We’re not our 20-year-old selves day-dreaming in a dorm room about some Mr. Right. We now know we are Just Right on our own. We get to make decisions for ourselves, about ourselves. Not out of desperation, but because we have lived. We have lived and know what we want and what we don’t want. So, stand strong on your see-saw and enjoy the balance.
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!