If you have been in a long-term relationship and are starting over, you must try not to let memories turn to bitterness. Those kind of feelings, especially around the holidays can crop up. But what if you decided not to let them? What if you truly committed to making this a wonderful holiday season? There’s no reason to wallow in what has happened, especially if this is your first holiday season since the break up.
This is not the end of something for you, it’s the beginning of something wonderful. You don’t ever again have to be the person at the party being fake happy with someone who no longer cares for you. The Amazing Thing is – You Get to Become The Person You’ve Always Wanted To Be now! You know what I’m saying. All those compromises for someone else just to keep the peace? Gone! No more “fake happy” for the sake of kids or co-workers or relatives! Not this holiday season! No more “Silent Night, Lonely Night” wondering where he is. Why, you can “Deck the Halls” however you want! So this year, may you dream of a “White Christmas”, not at all like the ones you used to know. Happy Holidays!
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!