“I know it’s hard to let go of people that have been with you forever. Sometimes it’s time to call it a day.” – Wendy William
I luv Wendy. She tells it like it is. She’s been through a lot and come out the other side. This quote really spoke to me. How many people in my life have I been carrying around on my back just because I’ve known them forever? Do I honestly need to be in any type of relationship with these people any more? I don’t mean this in a bad way. I mean this in a “I need to enjoy my life” way. I need to do this for myself. Get rid of Toxic People. Get rid of people Who R At A Different Point In Their Life Than I Am. You know, the Ones Who Never Grow Up. Because we are grown up and we are ready to live a New Life in A New Way. And part of that for us Leftat50’s, is disconnecting with these people. You know who they are. They hang at the fringes and when they need us they come tugging on our sleeve. They are never there for us. They don’t return any forms of communication for months. And then it’s just “so important” and “you must call me back” blah, blah, blah. I think that, like Wendy, we’ve all “been there, done that.” So I don’t know about you, but with certain people, from here on out, I’m gonna “call it a day.”
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!