When you are in a relationship that is obviously troubled, it is very easy to take the “Wait and See” approach. Overtime, this becomes the way of coping with the dysfunction. The thought that maybe if you hang on long enough, he will change. The sad habit of living that way is over. You have known he is not in love for quite awhile.
When your husband has decided to step outside of your marriage, guess what? You no longer have a marriage. The very vows a couple takes state that clearly. It does not say, “For better or for worse, until he cheats on you with a 25-year-old and lies about it and then blames you and leaves the marriage do we part.” (But these days, maybe it should!)
Please stop waiting to restart your life. We only get one. As women of a certain age caring for our aging parents, we know this. We see how fast the years go by. It is time to start living each and every day with hope and joy.
Stop doing just two things that keep breaking your heart when it comes to your Ex: Waiting and Seeing.
The Inner Women who is ready for life has come out. The dreams at the bottom of your ocean must surface. They’ve been holding their breath forever now, waiting and seeing when they can finally emerge. That time is now! You have been like a tightly closed shell and you know there are hundreds of pearls inside of you. They are waiting to adorn your new life. To lead you to more discoveries. The happy life you have been dreaming up will begin the second you truly stop the wait. You’ll see!
We all go through major life transitions when relationships end… Through this website, I will share my thoughts as I walk the path of “New-Self” discovery. It doesn’t matter which side of 50 you are on. The real question is, Are you ready to live life? To forge a Path of Your Own Making (For a change!)? Then stop dwelling over the What-Might-Have-Beens and join me. Share your thoughts here, comment on mine, and let’s do this together!